I’ve been having a hard time lately being so “strung out” with everything I have going on and feeling like I have my hands in too many things. Then I heard someone say this phrase at Starbucks and, though I’ve heard it before, it struck a chord. The very same day I was driving and heard another message about giving up some things in life, even if the things are truly good, because we fill up every last minute of our lives. I really feel like I need to just sit and be a good wife/friend/person for now.

I started thinking about it all, and what I have on my plate:

-Student two nights a week
-Full time employee
-Hospital intern/volunteer once a week
-Jr. League member
-Big Sister with Big Brothers Big Sisters
-Church nursery volunteer once a week
-Bible Study member
-Dog Sitter (we host dogs in our home periodically)
-DIYer/Remodeler
-Housekeeper
-Blogger
-Wife/Sister/Daughter/Friend

I heard another message yesterday that said “We do the best we can at any period in our life” but I don’t think I’ve been very successful at any of these things and it’s time to cut back so I can really rock at my roles. Some things need to go…

As of now, I’ve cut Big Sister from the list and also am not renewing my Jr. League membership. That alone took up more than half of my Saturday this weekend.  Oy…. In June, I think I’ll be cutting back on the church nursery. This summer I’m attempting two classes for nursing prereqs, so I’ll need all the time I can muster.

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Lights, Camera, Action!

03.13.2012

The living room lighting needed to be inconspicuous (our ceilings are low so we didn’t want to accentuate that with your eye being drawn  immediately to the fixture. We have lots to look at in the house, but didn’t want it to be the light fixture first and foremost. And it needed to give a [...]

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Let there be Light

03.09.2012

Last April I showed you our lighting situation in our living room. The house came with a light I couldn’t stand for our house (because I think it looks like it belongs in a Spanish or Italian styled home – something more opulent than ours). To save you from clicking back to the old photos, [...]

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Baby Shower Roundup

03.07.2012

I realize I have neglected to give an update on the baby shower I hosted last August for my best friend who had her second child and first son! After talking in various posts about ideas, here’s what I ended up with: The tone all started once mama had Jack, because Carlie and her husband decided not to [...]

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Battle of the Bulge Update

03.05.2012

After increasing my jean size slowly over the past couple years, I came to the realization that it can’t just keep increasing. I stated back in November that it couldn’t continue (I had gained 18 pounds since our wedding two and a half years ago). So to start myself in the right direction, I began running about [...]

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Master Bedroom Peek

02.29.2012

Without a whole write up and details about our master bedroom, here is a quick shot of what it looks like this morning! We painted the room Behr Ultra color matched to Glidden Smooth Stone (what we used in our living room) Added the wall mural I mentioned a while back Added a sliding door [...]

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Fiddle Leaf Fig Obsession

02.28.2012

I’ve been seeing fiddle leaf fig trees popping up in magazine photos and it started a small obsession. I decided I NEEEEDED one for our house and now that we’re getting our bedroom together with a new sliding door that lets in gobs and gobs of light, I figured we had the perfect spot for [...]

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Guest Bathroom: 2 Steps Forward, One Step Back

02.23.2012

Our guest bath sat like this for quite a while – like a year and a half. We hated the shower stall being cheapo plastic slapped up on top of drywall. When I tore it off to investigate a potential mold issue one weekend while hubs was out of town, we ended up without a [...]

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Office Organization

02.14.2012

I was going a bit crazy with my lack of organizational system in my cloffice.  In December we were up in Tahoe celebrating a  friend’s 30th birthday and the home we stayed in had a fabulous organization system I knew would be perfect for me. It’s Pottery Barn’s Daily System. And the price sure adds up [...]

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The New Red Cup

02.08.2012

It isn’t news that I love my Starbucks 2 pump white mochas… But I REALLY loved it this morning when I was handed this: How cute is the new Red Cup?! It says: all my LOVE new LOVE brotherly LOVE sweet LOVE first LOVE motherly LOVE true LOVE LOVE birds LOVE forever LOVE you LOVE [...]

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Glam It Up With Gold

02.04.2012

Our house isn’t exactly glam and is pretty laid-back but when I opened up my email to see this, I fell in love. Gold is all over the place and I’m thinking this could work on our dark blue accent wall in our kitchen/laundry area. But you know me – I’m slightly cheap and non-committal when [...]

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Pocket Door Hardware – Quite the decision!

02.02.2012

When my dad came in September/October, we decided to tackle some pocket doors. I guess I kinda like doors since we replaced the front door and side door of the house with Dutch doors. For interior doors, our house is so small any wall space is valuable, so I knew pocket doors would be great [...]

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Kate Spade Love

01.31.2012

Yes, I love Kate Spade. (I know… I just posted yesterday about my love for the Rosie Cardigan.) All those bright, cheery, fun colors that Kate comes up with… Bliss. And polka dots??? Don’t get me started. Well, okay maybe you should get me started. I found the above on what else… the Kate Spade blog! (Who [...]

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Dreamy Cardigan

01.30.2012

That may sound like a paradox but for a cardi-loving girl like me, this is to die for: If you’re an XXS you can still get this Rosie Cardigan from Kate Spade.  Fortunately for me, they don’t have my size so I don’t even have to figure out how I can afford one. I’m definitely eyeing those [...]

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Eye Candy

01.25.2012

I had an entire day to myself (!!!) and went out to run some errands and see what great things there are in stores right now. I wanted to share some great finds. My first stop was Target (of course a mainstay and favorite for home items). Not for my house, but I sure loved [...]

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The Deer and the Dog Crossed the Road…

01.23.2012

Getting back to Oh, Deer I mentioned long ago – it is hung and I even ended up buying this sweet dog when I saw it on clearance for $14.99. I just adore the white animal craze! So where did they end up, you ask? The deer is in our dining “nook” above a mirror [...]

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Crush & Sale Alert: Serena and Lily

01.21.2012

I adore Serena & Lily’s beautifully sophisticated yet simple nurseries and baby items. One of my favorite baby gifts is their burps and bib gift set. Really – how cute are these fabrics?! So when I got this in my inbox, I had to start shopping: I bought some gifts for baby showers coming up [...]

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